"You Give Love a Bad Name" is a song by American rock band Bon Jovi, released as the first single from their 1986 album Slippery When Wet. Written by Jon Bon Jovi, Richie Sambora, and Desmond Child about a woman who has jilted her lover, the song reached 1 on the U.S. Billboard Hot 100 on November 29, 1986, and became the band's first number-one hit. In 2007, the song re-entered the charts at No. 29 after Blake Lewis performed it on American Idol. Despite the lyrics of the chorus, the song should not be confused with "Shot Through the Heart", an unrelated song from Bon Jovi's 1984 self-titled debut album.

Composition The chorus tune of "You Give Love a Bad Name" was originally recorded by Bonnie Tyler under the title "If You Were a Woman (And I Was a Man)" with different lyrics commissioned by its producer Jim Steinman. Dissatisfied with its success in the US and the UK (which he attributed to reticence on the part of her label in promoting it), Desmond Child re-wrote the song with Jon Bon Jovi and Richie Sambora.

Upon the release of the Ava Max song "Kings & Queens" in 2020, comparisons were drawn with that song, "You Give Love a Bad Name", and Bonnie Tyler's "If You Were a Woman (And I Was a Man)", and reviews highlighted Desmond Child's credit as a songwriter for "Kings & Queens".

Reception Cash Box called it a "jackhammer single" that could push Bon Jovi to massive success and said that "Jon Bon Jovi’s grinding vocal and the anthemic production spell A-O-R." Billboard called it "hard rock, raspy and aggressive." In a retrospective analysis, Chris Molanphy expressed his disgust at the song, calling its lyrics "sub-Meat Loaf" (Meat Loaf being best known for his work with Steinman). However, he did credit it for introducing the genre of hair metal to the mainstream. He also noted in another commentary how the song shared many similarities with Steinman's songs due to Child's involvement, saying "Steinman might as well have [produced it]", due to Child using devices such as its verbose title and anthemic chorus, likening it to Bat Out of Hell' infused with Aqua Net". It was placed at No. 20 on VH1's list of the "100 Best Hard Rock Songs".

Music video The music video for the song used all-color concert footage (the only all-color video song from Slippery When Wet) and photogenic shots primarily of Jon Bon Jovi, as well as other band members in concert. This video was filmed at the Olympic Auditorium in Los Angeles, California. Bon Jovi was now being managed by Doc McGhee, who realized that Bon Jovi needed a video for MTV. Doc hired video director Wayne Isham, who had directed videos for Doc's other band, Mötley Crüe. The two bands were competitive with each other and Mötley Crüe felt betrayed that Wayne would direct one of Bon Jovi's videos. Wayne had the band's name painted on the stage and made sure that the band did not see it until they began shooting. Bon Jovi had been opening for 38 Special but became a headlining act after the video debuted.

Awards and accolades Award Nominee/work Category Result 1986 Billboard Video Music Conference Bon Jovi Best Overall Video Best Performance Group Best Concert Performance Best Audio Best Longform Program

Track listings 7-inch single "You Give Love a Bad Name" – 3:53 "Raise Your Hands" – 4:17

12-inch single "You Give Love a Bad Name" – 3:53 "Raise Your Hands" – 4:17 "Borderline" – 4:10

7-inch picture disc single "You Give Love a Bad Name" – 3:53 "Let It Rock" – 5:24

CD Video single "Let It Rock" – 5:24 "Raise Your Hands" – 4:17 "Without Live" – 3:32 "You Give Love a Bad Name" – 3:53 "You Give Love a Bad Name" (video) – 3:53

Charts

Weekly charts Chart (1986–1987)PeakpositionAustralia (Kent Music Report)32Belgium (VRT Top 30 Flanders)4Europe (European Hot 100 Singles)52 Finland (Suomen virallinen lista)6South Africa (Springbok Radio)15Spain (AFYVE) 31US Cash Box1

Chart (2017) Peakposition Chart (2025) Peakposition Norway Airplay (VG-lista) 95

Year-end charts Chart (1986)PositionBelgium (Ultratop 50 Flanders)69Canada Top Singles (RPM)88Netherlands (Dutch Top 40)75Netherlands (Single Top 100)46US Billboard Hot 10030US Cash Box30

Chart (1987)PositionCanada Top Singles (RPM)55

Certifications

See also List of glam metal albums and songs "Kings & Queens"

References