Frideswide Strelley (died 1565), was an English courtier. She served as chamberer to Queen Mary I from 1533 onward.
Career
Frideswide Strelley was a daughter of John or Leonard Knight, of South Duffield in the parish of Hemingbrough, and his wife Isabella Langholme. She was an aunt of William Knight and distantly related to the family of Guy Fawkes. The Knight family had inherited lands at nearby Spaldington, and her father is sometimes named as "John Knight of Spaldington".Thomas Burton & James Raine, History and Antiquities of Hemingborough (York, 1888), pp. 217–223, Pedigree of the families of South Duffield She joined the service of Lady Mary, later Mary I, first as a chamberer, from as early as 1533,Letters and Papers Henry VIII, 6, p. 498 no. 1199. and was later ranked as a gentlewoman.David Loades, Mary Tudor: A Life (Oxford, 1992), pp. 140, 355: British Library Cotton MS Vespasian XXIV (1). She was said to have previously been a maid of honour to Catherine of Aragon.J. Lawson, 'Ritual of New Year's Gifts', Mary I in Writing: Letters, Literature, and Representation (Palgrave Macmillan, 2022), p. 180.HMC Rutland, 1 (London, 1888), p. 308 In the accounts of Lady Mary, she appears as "maistres Knight" from 1537 and was given sums of money, once for buying fish. She had a servant or "man".Frederick Madden, Privy Purse Expenses of Princess Mary (London, 1831), p. 20.
In 1548, she married Robert Strelley. As "Mrs Sturley", Frideswide Strelley rode in procession at the coronation of Mary I of England on 30 September 1553, dressed in silver and gold, her horse mantled with crimson velvet.John Strype, Ecclesiastical Memorials, 3:1 (Oxford, 1822), p. 55James Robinson Planché, Regal Records: Or, A Chronicle of the Coronations of the Queens Regnant (London, 1838), p. 9 fnAmbassades de Messieurs Noailles, 2 (Leyden, 1763), p. 197. The Imperial diplomats Simon Renard and the Count d'Egmont thought she, Susan Clarencieux and Jane Russell were Mary's most intimate confidantes, and as supporters of the Spanish marriage plan ought to be sent gifts of jewellery.Royall Tyler, Calendar State Papers, Spain, 12 (London, 1949), p. 144: David Loades, 'Philip II and the government of England', Law and government under the Tudors (Cambridge, 1988), p. 182. Mary gave Strelley gifts.Henry Octavius Coxe, Catalogues codicum MSS qui in collegiis aulisque Oxoniensibus, 1 (Oxford, 1852), p. 117, New College, Oxford. On 6 May 1554, she took delivery of a length of carnation velvet from the royal wardrobe.HMC Salisbury Hatfield, 1 (London, 1883), p. 130.
It was said that during Mary's reign the Privy Council called her "mother", apparently on account of her gravity of character. A woman at court in charge of the maids of honour at court could be called the "mother", but there is no other evidence of Strelley having this role.HMC Manuscripts of the Earl Rutland, vol. 1 (London, 1888), p. 308. She may have been one of the older women, ancianas, present with Mary I who are mentioned in Spanish accounts of her wedding at Winchester, although there is no reason to suppose she was older than Mary herself.Alexander Samson, Mary and Philip: The marriage of Tudor England and Habsburg Spain (Manchester, 2020), p. 108.
Strelley is noted for a story that she did not believe the queen was pregnant, unlike other courtiers including Susan Clarencieux who were discreet about their doubts.HMC Manuscripts of the Earl Rutland, vol. 1 (London, 1888), pp. 310–311. When Mary I accepted that she was not pregnant, she thanked Frideswide Strelley for her honesty.Linda Porter, Mary Tudor: The First Queen (Piatkus, 2009), p. 338: Hilda Prescott, Mary Tudor: The Spanish Tudor (London: Phoenix, 2003), p. 394. Mary gave her the lands of Charley Priory and Ulverscroft Priory in Leicestershire. She attended Mary's funeral in December 1558, and died in 1565.Mary Jean Stone, History of Mary I, Queen of England (London, 1901), p. 351
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