Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar () is a Pakistani screenwriter, director, Urdu poet, lyricist and occasional actor and producer known for writing such dramas as Boota from Toba Tek Singh (1999), Pyarey Afzal (2013), Sadqay Tumhare (2014), the top-rated Meray Paas Tum Ho (2019–2020), as well as the 2019 film Kaaf Kangana.
Early and personal life
Education Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar was born in 1962 in Lahore, Punjab, Pakistan. He studied in a government high school in Shad Bagh, Lahore. He used to write in school too and did further studies in B.Com followed by an MBA.
Professional career Khalil worked at the National Bank of Pakistan but sought retirement as he wanted to pursue a writing career.
Family He was engaged to his cousin Rukhsana Amin during his teenage but couldn't marry her due to family issues and conflicts. He wrote the drama serial Sadqay Tumhare based on his own love story during his teenage days. In 1985, Khalil married his first wife Rubi Naz. They have a son and a daughter. Khalil ur Rehman married his second wife Rozina Qureshi, while being married to Rubi. Rozina is an actress and was previously married to actor Faysal Qureshi. Khalil ur Rehman has a stepdaughter, Hanish Qureshi, from Rozina's marriage to Faysal and has two children of his own with Rozina.
His son Durrab Khalil (who formerly went with the alias Aabi Khan) is an actor.Kaukab Jahan (16 October 2019), "Kaaf Kangana Emerge Out of The Pain At Partition: Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar", Masala !. Retrieved 14 May 2020.
Career Khalil started his TV drama career with Dastak Aur Darwaza (1995), that he wrote and acted in, and later produced a film Qarz (1997) which he also wrote. He also wrote the dialogues of Ghar Kab Aao Gay (2000), Tere Piyar Mein, Mukhra Chan Varga, Nikki Jai Haan but made his breakthrough with Boota from Toba Tek Singh (1999). Later, he used this style in his dramas Landa Bazar (2002) and Love, Life Aur Lahore. Khalil has written various drama serials but he is best known for his super-hit dramas Pyarey Afzal (2013), Sadqay Tumhare (2014), and Meray Paas Tum Ho (2019).
Controversies
Feminism and sexism On 3 March 2020, Qamar appeared on a Pakistani talk show on Neo News to discuss the Aurat March. When Qamar was speaking, Marvi Sirmed interrupted Qamar by shouting "Mera Jism Meri Marzi" (meaning "My Body, My Choice"), a feminist slogan. He made obscene remarks about Marvi’s body and also indulged in abusive name-calling towards her. Qamar was accused of sexism and heavily criticized by politicians and prominent figures, while Geo TV suspended his contract. Qamar said he had intervened when it was Sirmed's turn to speak, but she kept interrupting him.
Abduction case On 15 July 2024, Qamar was abducted when he went to meet a woman supposedly pretending to be his fan who had allegedly invited him out, very early in the morning around 4:40am. His belongings were taken and a ransom was demanded. During this ordeal, the suspects filmed compromising and explicit videos of Qamar. When he refused to pay further extortion money, these videos were leaked online. The leaked footage shows Qamar with the woman who lured him as well as scenes of the video setup by the woman's accomplices. Majority Pakistanis called the abduction "poetic justice", saying that he was not abducted by men, but by women.
Qamar later filed a complaint with FIA's Cyber Crime Wing. The playwright alleged that the accused deceived him and made videos, later blackmailing him for money. The suspects were arrested and the case is currently proceeding at the Lahore High Court.
Filmography Television serials Year Title ScreenwriterLyricist Actor Director Producer 1995 Dastak Aur Darwaza 1999 Boota from Toba Tek Singh Chandpur Ka Chandoo 2000 Good Bye Raishman Tum Yehi Kehna 2002 Landa Bazar 2004 Dil Hai Ke Diya Hai 2007 Dilli Ke Bankay 2008 Uss Paar 2009 Jab Hatheli Par Chand Likhna 2010 Muhabbat Haar Muhabbat Jeet 2011 Phir Kab Milo Gay Anokhi 2012 Adhoori Film Ki Poori Kahani Beopaar Man Jali Tumhain Kuch Yaad Hai Janan Main Mar Gai Shaukat Ali 2013 Bunty I Love You Love Life Aur Lahore Pyarey Afzal Mian Biwi Minus Love 2014 Sadqay Tumhare 2015 Mera Naam Yousuf Hai 2016 Unsuni Zara Yaad Kar 2017 Mohabbat Tumse Nafrat Hai Tau Dil Ka Kia Hua Laal Ishq 2019 Meray Paas Tum Ho 2023Idiot2024GentlemanSunn Mere Dil 2025Main Manto Nahi Hoon
Television shows +YearShowChannelRole2021Public with Khalil-ur-Rahman QamarPublic NewsHost2023Gup Shab With Vasay ChaudhrySamaa TVGuestMazaaq RaatDunya News
Films Year Film Screenwriter Lyricist Director ProducerLanguage 1997 Qarz Urdu2000No Paisa No Problem 2005 Koi Tujh Sa Kahan 2010 Channa Sachi Muchi Only dialogues Punjabi 2017 Punjab Nahi Jaungi Urdu/Punjabi 2019 Kaaf Kangana Urdu2022 London Nahi Jaunga Urdu/Punjabi 2026 Mirza Jatt Urdu/Punjabi
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